Monday, November 24, 2008
From Mommy to Momma in a day...
Ada is hilarious. I think probably everyone that knows her, knows that she is absolutely hilarious. Ben, when we speaks of me to the children, refers to me as "Momma", when both kids call me "Mommy". Ben had a talk with Ada the other day, I actually think that it was because she hit me, and he explained that it wasn't OK to hit/pinch/bite "Momma". So, ever since that, she has been calling me Momma. Weird, eh?
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Sunday, November 23, 2008
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Friday, November 21, 2008
Hunting weekend
Spending the day at home with the kids was great! We played in the basement and they rode bikes while I read for a bit. We played upstairs, and made some pumpkin chocolate chip bread. I ended up re-arranging our living room, just because with our new desk, my daughter has discovered the tower and the lovely and bright green button that is on it, which just happens to be the power! I will be in the middle of a sentance, and the whole thing with shut down! Then today she took a Dora Memory Card and shoved it where a floppy disk is supposed to go. Oh my gosh, I don't want her to wreck our computer, so I put it back kind of how it used to be because that way, I can baby-gate it and then I won't have to worry about losing work/ busting it/ or her shoving random toys where they don't belong! Wyatt got to go play with Brandi and he was so excited, so A and I stayed here and she got to watch a bit of Baby Einstein while I finished cleaning up... then we did bath, and now I am off to clean up our popcorn mess! We watched "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" I thought whats the hurt in watching a couple good cartoons while Daddy is away? ;)
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I am tired of negativity. I don't want to hop on the soapbox, but I was feeling really negative lately. About everything, stomping my feet when I found out that Ben was leaving for the weekend, and leaving me with the kids and no car, I was like, "are you nuts?" Just so negative! I don't want to walk through life getting to the next thing.. rushing through...
Every evening, I am like "Ok, Sara... just have the kids play for a bit... then you can get them in the bath... and then finally bedtime, then some peace for yourself...." I feel so selfish.
There is this woman and her family named Stephanie Nielson... I heard of her, actually while we were visiting A&K in PA, and I heard of her because of the Today show. On August 16, 2008 she and her beloved husband were in a private airplane crash. She sustained burns to 83& of her body, and he sustained about 30%. They have four children, and from what I have gathered, are about my age (I think about 26ish?). I follow a blog who is raising funds to help their doctor bills, they have had muliple surgeries and are still hospitalized. Stephanie, who is called Nie Nie, and her husband were transfered, I think yesterday actually, to another hospital a bit closer to where their famliy is... I think they are in Utah. Anyhow, Nie Nie's sisters are helping with the children for the time being, but the one sister, Courtney keeps a blog which she updates daily on their recovery process, and about the kids. I have been just completely engrossed with this story, as I know they need prayer, but seeing God glorified in utter tragedy is what strikes me the most. Oh my gosh it is wonderful! Anyhow, the NieNie blog (which is how she gained a huge fan base because of her possitive outlook on life, motherhood, her happy marriage, and desire to cook healthfully) is updated daily and where people write in and say which of the posts was there favorites. If you have time, please check out Nie Nie's blog, it is so amazing! I was reading one of her posts last night when I happened upon this little bit of advice:
"The biggest mistake I made [as a parent] is the one that most of us make. . . . I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of [my three children] sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages six, four, and one. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less"(Loud and Clear [2004], 10–11).
I need to just LOVE... Love as Jesus loves... and learn and pray... and be positive. I desire to have this almost infectious positive outlook. I want to do it for myself, my husband, and my children!
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